May 23 The friend in my adversity I shall always cherish most. I can better trust those who helped to relieve the gloom of my dark hours than those who are so ready to enjoy with me the sunshine of my prosperity. Ulysses S. Grant, 18th President, 1869-1877 The corollary statement might be from General Sherman: "Grant stood by me when I was crazy, and I stood by him when he was drunk, and now we stand by each other."